A munch is just a fancy name for a social mixer. Mixers are often “singles” events, and so this is to separate the two. It is not all people at a munch are seeking coupling or play. It is wise not to assume that anyone/everyone who attends seeks a hookup of some sort.
But it is a great place to come, meet people, have conversation and establish new friendships. I assure you that as you establish connections and friendships within the kinky community things may develop. But one should not expect it to end in a one night stand.
We do have several rules that we enforce at our current munches:
Rules of engagement:
-Wear normal casual wear, no fetish attire as this is public location
-Buy something, coffee, tea, whatever. we are hosting in a place you don’t have to break the bank.
-Starting in August we will take a small optional donation ($1 or $2) towards the hosts expenses. Only give it if you have it and feel comfortable.
-Be respectful and open. Everyone is different, has different opinions, choices, preferences. This is meant to be a safe conversation.
-Inclusive/accepting position on all legal fetishes
-No illegal activity/inappropriate for public. Your more than welcome to pair off and go do whatever, but please don’t jeopardize our hosting site.
-If you arrive late, just pull up a chair or two. We don’t bite…without consent. We will happily add tables if needed
-Please don’t leave your trash at tables, let’s be nice to the staff so we are welcomed. If you need assistance tossing, feel free to ask us to help.
-Do not block/ignore the hosts. We don’t have to be best friends, but that will get you removed from event invites. This works both ways, if host deems you unsafe, not respecting of boundaries, or somehow disruptive we may choose to block you which will make these events no longer available to you
-Please do not send unwarranted messages to attendees, come meet them, talk to them, and establish rapport. We want everyone to feel comfortable, safe, and welcome.
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